No one really wants to think about dying. No one really wants to think about making a will. But we all agree that taking care of our families is of utmost importance. Making a will might seem difficult and daunting, it really isn't. A will is pretty simple and clear-cut. and something that everyone should have. Yet, many people don't.

In fact, a recent survey revealed that about 68% of Americans do not have a valid will. Let’s look at some reasons why this might be true:

• “I don’t have anything”. This is something that is said a lot to Planned Giving Reps. But you have more than you think. For example, do you have a house? What about your jewelry? Your collectables? Who gets the clock or the furniture? A simple will can solve these issues. Not to mention it’s the compassionate and smart thing to do.
• “If I make a will, I will die.” Believe it or not, people think that once they make a will they will die very soon. Now the truth is, we are all going to die at some point. Making a will does not make this happen any sooner. Plus, if you are going to die soon, doesn’t it make more sense to have a will in place?
• “My spouse will get everything any way.” That may or may not be true. Every state has different rules regarding those who die without a will. It depends on so many variables. For instance, do you have children? Have you been married before? Having a will makes sure your property and belongings go where and to who you wish it to.
• “A will is just for older people.” It would be great if we all died at a specific age long into the future. Sadly, the reality is anything can happen at any time. Be prepared.
• “I have told my family what I want.” It’s a great idea to tell your family about your wishes regarding your possessions. The problem is, that once you pass, there is no legal way to know what you wish if nothing is written down. We like to think our family will respect what we want, but there are countless stories of “loving” families who become “not so loving” when faced with deciding who gets what after you’re gone. Not to mention again that the state government will get final say. This is especially true if you have minor children or children with special needs. Take the time to put it in writing!